{"id":1587833,"date":"2017-06-09T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2017-06-09T04:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/divine.ca\/?p=1587833"},"modified":"2020-09-12T23:09:24","modified_gmt":"2020-09-13T03:09:24","slug":"turn-chores-everyday-habits-into-family-time","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/divine.ca\/en\/turn-chores-everyday-habits-into-family-time\/","title":{"rendered":"Turn Chores & Everyday Habits Into Family Time"},"content":{"rendered":"

Make Mundane Chores Magnificent<\/h2>\n

Today\u2019s families are overbooked and overwhelmed. Work ends, school is out, and then it\u2019s time for dinner prep, sports and other extra-curriculars, studying, maybe a few loads of laundry\u2026and then off to bed. There is not enough time in the day to do it all, but many of us try our best to be super-parents.<\/p>\n

In the chaos of the days, nights and endless routines, family time feels like the \u2018extra\u2019 that we often sacrifice<\/a> to accomplish all the other tasks and responsibilities. But time together\u2014moments as a family\u2014is what we need most of all to soothe those stressful pressures and heavy-weighted responsibilities.<\/p>\n

Family time doesn\u2019t mean that everyone has to carve out hours of the day. We\u2019re all busy, but in that craziness, we can make time for each other. Often, family time just requires the ability to multi-task. To spend more time together, families can turn these everyday tasks, habits and activities into convenient times to gather and catch up.<\/p>\n

Meal Times<\/h2>\n

Make time to have dinner together\u2026even that doesn\u2019t always mean a massive home-cooked meal. According to The Family Dinner Project<\/a>, \u201cRecent studies link regular family dinners with many behaviors that parents pray for: lower rates of substance abuse, teen pregnancy and depression, as well as higher grade-point averages and self-esteem.\u201d<\/p>\n

Talk about your day and make an effort to discuss any upcoming important events for the family. For older kids, talk about world events or interesting social media trending topics. Ban all devices from family dinner time\u2026even if you\u2019re grabbing dinner to go! Designate dinner as family only.<\/p>\n

\"\"Chores<\/h2>\n

Families often have designated days for certain chores. If part of the weekend includes changing linens and washing laundry, make a family event of it. Help kids make their beds. Parents also can use the time to teach kids the basics of folding and laundry (they\u2019ll need to learn!). If it\u2019s time for a spring cleaning, give kids jobs that are age-appropriate and use the cleaning time to bond and chat. Chores and housework are much more enjoyable when we make it fun\u2026and when we do it together!<\/p>\n

\"\"Commuting<\/h2>\n

If kids don\u2019t take the bus, use the commute to and from school to play catch up<\/a>. Turn off the radio and use the time to talk about current events and how their day went. Trips to games or recitals also may turn into the ideal time to have family time. Use times when the family is together to start a dialogue and have fun as a family\u2026even if you\u2019re all trapped in the car! However, make sure kids know that devices need to go off\u2026family time means that everyone is engaged!<\/p>\n

Evening Hours<\/h2>\n

Some weeks, it seems impossible to get everyone in the same place\u2026even for a meal. When the family is going in a million different directions, parents need to step back a bit and consider scheduling in a time to come together. Movie night at the house is a simple and fun event to plan; vote on the movie to rent, buy some popcorn and snacks (or order in pizza!) and chill out together. Family time doesn\u2019t always have to be spent talking and sharing.<\/p>\n

We\u2019re all trying our best to meet all the demands and deadlines. Too often, though, families sacrifice time together in the chaos of the stress and pressures of daily life. Use everyday situations as an excuse to bring the family together. There is time in each day to share as a family, we just have to multi-task\u2026and, sometimes, redefine the meaning and expectations of \u2018family time.\u2019<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Make Mundane Chores Magnificent Today\u2019s families are overbooked and overwhelmed. Work ends, school is out, and then it\u2019s time for dinner prep, sports and other extra-curriculars, studying, maybe a few…<\/div>\n
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